Monday, June 2, 2014

Love....the endless aching need.

When and how does love start? It begins with focusing. When you're falling in love, you can totally focus on your lover. How attractive she is!. How gorgeous she is! All you can do is pay attention to her charming smile, lovely movement, and sweet smell, Nothing is too trivial. You feel so happy about loving her. Everything seems perfect. But as time goes on, you start to focus on something different. One day you find a flaw with her that has never been seen before. Perhaps she would like to hide it. She becomes embarrassed because you've been never recognized or mentioned it before. You say it's nothing, but she becomes more concerned about it. For her it's time to focus on her flaws and rethink your true love rather than your focus on her. Restless of mind comes to her, and She's afraid that you are changing gradually, which makes her smaller and smaller. Neither of you focus perfectly on each other anymore. Now you begin to lose your belief in love and to focus on the scars that you give each other. Finally you break up. Love is not so easily forgotten even after breaking up. Still love lingers no matter hard you try to move on. It's too late to let her come back to you. Without her everything around you has become meaningless. Now you realize what you have focused on. Love needs and wants sincere focus on itself, not your lover's appearance. Otherwise, it could fade away like a shimmering star close enough to admire, too distant to touch.

Left brain type person

According to Darwinian theory, optimal evolution takes place with random variation and selective retention. The evolution savvy individual will try many different approaches when faced with a problem and select the best of those approaches. Many historical intellectuals have confessed their advantage was simply considering/exploring/trying more approaches than others. The left brain dominant type suffers from limited approaches, narrow-mindedness. The right brain dominant type suffers from too many approaches, scatterbrained. To maintain balanced hemispheres, you need to exercise both variability and selection. Just as a company will have more chance of finding a great candidate by increasing their applicant pool, an individual who considers a wider set of options is more likely to make quality decisions.